I have been awakened many mornings to the same conversation in my head with the same person. Someone who I care deeply about. It’s not a fun conversation and I have this gnawing need to resolve it. Many a morning I have rolled my eyes in annoyance that it has come back to bother me and then relegated it into some dark recess. Other times I have full conversations with this person and I feel resolved, but only for a bit, and then it comes back, drooling for more. In my resolutions, I just may be right, and have the sweetest, most peaceful intentions, but you see, it doesn’t matter, if you keep coming nose to nose with these scarred, foul breathing, knuckle dragging creatures IE the sticking points, they are all yours, all freaking yours! And what you keep wanting to change about the other, or the point you keep trying to make is that very thing the drooling creature is keeping you from seeing or my dear, BEING. In my case, today, it is the sweetest, most beautiful, tender heart that one could ever imagine existed. And by tender I do not mean bruised. I mean pure life force, love, so profound that it senses this in all things. It embraces all, because it is all. We each have one. It is the power house of this human-soul manifestation, it is the true brain. When you recognize the gift in this, you can take a deep breath, kiss that smelly beast on the nose and surrender to your soft heart. It is then and only then that you can realize that this is your true super power.